If they wanted to, they would


 I can't help but wonder why people can't be honest and loyal. Why they can't tell the truth and be upfront with their intentions or feelings. I mean after all we are grown. It's probably because some don't want to hurt your feelings, while other are waiting for something better to come along, and some want their cake and eat it too. I would rather be told the truth then to be comfort with a lie. I wish people could just say what they mean and mean what they say. So sick of all these silly games people play. I get it's hard to tell someone how you feel but we would save a lot of time and heartache if we did just that. I don't mean you have to be rude about it, just do it as nicely as you can. I get people are busy but no one is that busy that they can't send a two letter word (hi) it's true you make time for the things and people that matter to you, hence the saying if they wanted to they would. The other thing that gets me and it's something new to me seeing I'm old school is ghosting. Like what the heck? I don't understand, I guess it goes back to people's  intentions and them not wanting to hurt your feelings? I never will understand and I will keep being me and telling people exactly what's on my mind so they don't have to wonder where I stand or how I'm feeling. I never want people to question where they stand with me and if they don't know I pray they ask so I can tell them. I don't intentionally want to ever hurt anybody but I know I probably have a time or two and didn't know if. I know what it feels like to be on the receiving end of this and it really bites. It leaves you questioning what you did wrong or why you're not good enough and I would never want anybody to feel like that. So with all this being said I challenge you all to say what you mean and tell people exactly how you feel. It will save a lot of time, heartache and tears. God Bless you all and good luck out there you're going to need it. The world we live in now is such a what can I get out of this  and most of the people only think about themselves. It's sad and I hate to see where we are going to be in a few years from now. God help us all. If no one's told you I'm proud of you and You matter and I'm always here if you need an ear. Love y'all 💕

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