Don't waste your time


 DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME

 1. Don’t waste your time on someone who don't make time for you. No matter how busy someone is, no matter how hectic their days are, they will make time if they want to. They will make time if they care.

2. Don’t waste your texts on someone who reads and ignores them. Don’t waste them on someone who regularly forgets to return your calls.

3. Don’t waste your time on someone whose actions don’t match with their words. They sweet-talk you one day and act differently the next day. They make promises but never keep to them. 

4. Don’t waste your time on someone who gives you mixed signals. Today they make you believe you're their last bus stop. The next day, they make you feel like dying. Love/friendship builds up; love does not cast down.

 5. Don’t waste your time on someone who is not sure about you. They tell you they're not sure where the relationship will lead to. So why are you there?  

6. Don’t waste your time on someone who doesn’t share their world with you. They only share their troubles with you but never share their breakthroughs and good things with you. Are you their burden bearer.

7. Don’t waste your time with someone who keeps you a secret from their friends and family. They keep saying don't worry, when the time comes, at the right time. The question is, when will the right time come?

8. Don’t waste your time on someone who is not sure about you. If they were sure, they would find the time. They would make an effort. They would text or call. All the excuses they are giving why they can't make time is because they are not sure you are the one.

9. Don't waste your time with someone who only talk about sex, or wants it every time your together and nothing about the future. 

10. Don't waste your time with someone whose phone is always off when you need their help. But their phones are on when they need your help/ time.

11. Don't waste your time with someone who wouldn't swim across oceans for you just to bring you light when your world is in the darkness

12. Don't waste your time with someone who brings you more tears than smiles'

13. Don't t waste your time with someone who won't pray with you or for you. For God is above all else.  

It's hard to figure out whether you should stay and hold on or leave and let go. This goes for any relationship.  I pray that everyone can figure this out because life is to short to be questioning who you are and what your worth is based on how people treat you. Know you are special and loved because God has a purpose for you. 

(Not all of this writing is mine)

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